Since beginning this blog nearly two years ago, I have received hundreds of touching and inspiring emails and comments from amazing men and women who have shared their experiences with me and my readers.
I know that the comments and personal stories often provide inspiration and hope for other women hoping to find a great man.
So, this thread is created specifically for readers to share their stories to help uplift and inspire other women.
I invite everyone who has learned from experience to share their thoughts, insights, and wisdom.
I know that the comments and personal stories often provide inspiration and hope for other women hoping to find a great man.
So, this thread is created specifically for readers to share their stories to help uplift and inspire other women.
I invite everyone who has learned from experience to share their thoughts, insights, and wisdom.
Please post your story or life lesson in the comments of this thread for all to read!
This thread is not intended as a forum for bashing men but to share lessons you have learned to help other women on their journey!
Thank you for your contributions!
Jennifer
I will post this thread in the sidebar so it will stay available for my readers!
This thread is not intended as a forum for bashing men but to share lessons you have learned to help other women on their journey!
Thank you for your contributions!
Jennifer
I will post this thread in the sidebar so it will stay available for my readers!
5 thoughts and insights:
I think what I have learned is that the common denominator in every single one of my romantic relationships is myself.
Every success and failure has its roots in my patterns and choices.
That while I should not blame myself, I must also take responsibility for my actions.
That what matters to see what is going on clearly. To be honest with myself, and not cling to hope or invest in a fantasy or how things will be different when...
If the relationship is unhappy more than it is happy - to acknowledge that and communicate it clearly, let go easily, and move on with dignity and acceptance, knowing my value.
That how I am treated is more important than who the man is/how many thing we have in common in terms of hobbies and interests.
That there are worse things than being alone.
Self-esteem is everything.
This may be vague, but the specifics could take 20,000 words :)
Hi,
Very nice blog you have here. Found your blog after searching information for relationships. Thanks for the great info!
My name is Irene and I’m involved in an online site called ‘A woman’s mind at http://awmtv.com which provides videos relating to relationship advice as well as forums, etc.
I was hoping that you would have a minute to check out the site and perhaps if you liked what you saw… put a link on your blog?
I may be going out on a limb by asking you for promotional help through your blog, but I hope you find awmtv.com to be as news worthy/helpful as I perceive it to be. There’s still a lot of new things to come up on it, but hope you like what you see!
Thanks for your time :)
Best,
Irene
Pitty how women seem to think they truly WANT a nice guy, when in fact they fall head over heals for a complete jerk EVERY TIME! Quit denying your true feelings. You want a jerk and you know it. It's scientifically proven that jerks attract women at a much more successful rate than "nice guys".
Hi Anonymous (1-5),
Thanks for your comments!
Well, you actually bring up a good point; one I hope to address on this blog! :-)
Actually some women do have a problem picking great men... the jerks may be more available and "out there".
My hope is to help women realize that those sorts of guys are not the ones who will make a great partner.
Having said this, I for one do not want anything to do with a jerk. :-)
Thankfully the men in my life are pretty ultra fabulous men!
I applaud all the nice guys out there and hope more women will stop hooking up with the not so great guys!
Thanks for your thoughts,
Jennifer
I have been crying while reading your blog. It seems that I have been hoping, that it will be better when...or things will be different later, like he says. He blames me for the problems, saying that I was dishonest with him and tricked him into having a child with me.
I would like to say, I withheld some important information from him but then after I told him and saw his reaction, I was willing to leave the relationship (though I was pregnant) and he forced me to stay (by hitting and threatening me) claiming that he was not going to have some other "messed up" guy raise his kid.
I want out, but am afraid to try to leave, afraid that he will find me and kill me. I deal with emotional abuse everyday (mean statements, disrespectful glares, making faces at me when I ask if he can hold the baby for 5-10 minutes). I want to commit suicide everyday, I want to leave everyday. I need help and I don't know what to do.
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