Can't Get Over a Jerk? Here is Help

Women all over the world are tired of hooking up with not-so-great guys.

Some are in relationships they know are unhealthy yet they feel trapped.

Then there are women who find themselves continually picking really harmful and abusive men.

And, some women know they are being used but just can't seem to get over a not-so-great guy.

What do you do?

This blog was created to help you find a great guy and move on from those not so great relationships, so hopefully you have found some ideas and inspiration while visiting. But in addition to this I have created a few visual reminders to help women stop picking jerks and start on the road to healthy relationships.

Let me explain how this works.

There is some fascinating research showing how the words we read impact the choices we make and alter how we experience life.

What the research is showing is that just reading some words actually changes the way we view the world, and subconsciously impacts our decisions, interactions, and outlook.

So, with that in mind, a simple way to remind yourself to move in a more positive and healthy direction, to let go of an unhealthy relationship, and to find the strength in yourself is to read positive healing words that will support your subconscious in making healthy choices.

I created these two 8x10 healing words visual reminders to give you a tool to help you move on!

You can purchase a healing word picture for $15.00 (includes shipping), and I will send it off to you pronto!

Put the healing words print on your refrigerator, frame it, or hang it over your bed to remind you to find a healthy relationship. Just read the words each day and your subconscious will help you release your tendency to pick not so great guys.

For those of you who know a woman (friend, daughter, sister) who needs help in this area, you may consider giving a healing word print to help her move on and stop hooking up with the wrong kind of guy.

If you are one of those women who need help letting go of a bad relationship, getting the strength to get out of an abusive situation, or motivation to be a great women deserving a great guy, go ahead and get your healing word print!

If you wish to purchase a healing word print, simply click on the PayPal button and specify which healing word print you want in the PayPal customer notes when you checkout!

Ready to frame, 8x10 healing word prints are filled with words, symbols, and phrases to help you let go of unhealthy relationships and move on with strength and optimism. Prints are reproductions of an ink and watercolor painting, professionally printed on card stock quality paper.

Each print is only $15.00, and shipping is included the U.S. and Canada.

Cool RESEARCH on the effect and influence of words

In the fabulous book, Kluge by Gary Marcus, he shares some examples of the amazing power words have to alter our behavior and choices.

For a few examples Gary sites research that demonstrates people who were asked if they would buy a car were almost twice as likely to do so as those who were not asked the question. (Page 83).

Marcus shows how reading a list of eight words completely altered how people described a person. (Page 43).

He shows how a drink associated with a split second view of a happy face actually made people enjoy the drink more. (Page 88).

Our words may just be more powerful than we think!


As a hypnotherapist, I try to utilize numerous techniques to elicit the help of the subconscious. As we learn about the brain and how we make the choices that we do, I think it is important to incorporate the knowledge we have to help us make healthy decisions.

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