Saturday, January 26, 2008

Define Yourself - Harvey Fienstein Quote


"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."

~Harvey Fienstein

Never give up yourself for a relationship.

Never dismiss or ignore inappropriate, indecent, or abusive behavior in a partner.

Never base your self worth on a man's opinion of you.

A good man will bring out the best in you. He will support you, care for you, honor and respect you.

A good man will appreciate your unique talents, abilities, and gifts. He will never try to make you into someone you are not.

He will not force you to do what is unhealthy or harmful. He will not demand you behave in ways foreign to your nature. He will not ridicule, condemn, or denigrate you.

A good man will never try to silence you or dismiss you.

You do not need an unhealthy relationship. You do not need a less that great man. You do not need a life of degradation and emotional heartache.

Find yourself. Honor who you are. Know you are of value to this world.

13 thoughts and insights:

Worldman said...

This is a beautiful little "manual" to help woman to ascertain that they are of value to this world

Anonymous said...

Thank you for this wonderful article!

Jennifer said...

Hi Worldman...

I'm happy to see you! I've missed you!

I hope you are well.

:-)

Jen

Jennifer said...

Hi Anonymous,

You are very welcome!

And thank YOU for your kindness,

Jennifer

Anonymous said...

jennifer, u have no idea how much, u hav made my day. This article has fully enlightened me and i found myself again. My ex was a condescending prick and i've come to the realisation tht YES there are more fishes in the pond:D thank u so much and kudoos to u for putting this out.

milkchickxoxox

Jennifer said...

Dearest milkchick,

I'm glad this post has sparked a new awareness for you!

There are great men in this world... truly wonderful guys who respect women and are decent human beings.

No man is worth destroying your sense of self, and harming your soul!

Warmest wishes to you... :-)

Jennifer

Loving Annie said...

Thank you, Jennifer. The words in there strengthen me.
It's all about booting them to the curb at the first sign of unkindness or disrespect.
Doesn't mena a good one will magically show up - but it DOES mean a bad one won't be hurting you.

dc_speaks said...

outstanding post, JJ.

Happy New Year and stuff. It's been awhile.

((hugss)) my friend!!!

Jennifer said...

Hey DC... how are you my friend? What is up these days? I hope all is well and life is good!

Catch up with you soon,

;-)

Jen

Jennifer said...

Hi Annie,

Yes.. you are so right!

Best get rid of a not so good guy before they can do any damage! ;-)

XO,

jen

Kath said...

I really like this article, so I posted this link on my facebook :)


a good guy should bring out the best in you, but you don't need a guy to be the best you.

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