How to Tell if a Guy is a Jerk - Tip 48 - Trophy Wife Syndrome

Guess what?

Great men are not interested in having a trophy wife!*

A trophy woman can be either one of those women who looks good for show but has little to offer in the way of an interesting, unique, and enjoyable personality, or she can be a fabulous woman but her partner doesn't care... he just wants a women who looks good!

Of course there are not-so-great men who are so superficial that their only concern is having an attractive woman who looks good hanging around with them, but great men want something beyond this.

When it comes to a partner, these not-so-great men who want a trophy woman, do not care about conversation, personality, relationship, intimacy, respect, or love. They want to look good to others, and they mistakenly think they are impressing other guys by having an attractive female around. This immature tactic to feel superior, of course is nonsense but still, the phenomenon remains.

Make no mistake about these sorts of men... they are not the kind of men who will be a good partner nor are they truly great men.

And, today, both men and women realize that the, "trophy wife syndrome" is all about a man's need for an ego boost, nothing more. Most people today can see through the nonsense and typically disrespect the immature need to use others to impress!

Relationships are not about trying to impress others. They are not about superficial appearances, nor are they about using another to boost a unhealthy ego.

A healthy relationship must be based on much more than appearance and show.

Truly great men want a partner who has more to offer than an attractive form. They want a partner who brings warmth and care and strength to the relationship. A woman with whom they can share a life. A woman who brings out the best in him, who has various attributes and characteristics he find meaningful... she may be funny, intriguing, kind, gentle, brilliant, exciting, dedicated, or have any number and combination of great qualities!

The specific traits are not important, what is important is that the man wants more than a trophy available to boost his ego by her attractiveness!


*Please note: I'm not in any way suggesting that being attractive in not important to some great men. I'm asserting that men who only care about their images, and who use women to boost their egos are not great men!