I hear women complain that they can't find a great man.
I have to ask... where are you looking?
If you think the guy you pick up in the local bar is wanting you for a long term partner, think again.
If you think the married co-worker who is flirting with you and/or cheating on his spouse is going to divorce his wife and become the man of your dreams, think again.
If you think the guy hanging out at strip clubs and spending his weekends immersed in online porn is all of a sudden going to make the perfect partner, think again!
If you think the guy who can't drag himself from the latest video game, or gaming table is the man for you, think again!
If you want to find a great man, start by noticing where there are great men!
Hint... great men are doing things great men do!
They are expanding their minds, helping others, giving service to those in need, enjoying healthy hobbies, supporting family and loved ones, volunteering, working honestly, living with integrity, connecting with nature, challenging their skills, making a difference in the world...
Maybe the reason you can't find a great guy is because you are looking in the wrong places!
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It is so refreshing to read the truth. The reality is that there are great men in this world and they are doing just the things you describe. I met one. He is honorable. Honest. Consistent. Talented. Intelligent. And definitely living with integrity. I have been with him for twenty months now. I did not know him prior to that and I only know from him and his family and friends how he was prior to five years ago, but for at least five years he has become the man I know today. He is a writer, a singer, a composer, a guitar player. He can beat me at tennis. He is a great cook. And he places my hand over his heart almost every day and tells me that his heart is all mine.
Hey Babe...
You are amazing! :-)
"He places my nad over his heart almost every day and tells me that his heart is all mine..."
OMG that is sooooooooooo great!
Yeah, he is a great guy!
XO,
Jen
And exactly where is the address where the good guys hang out ?
Sujit,
I think suffering is totally pointless. Rationalizing it doesn't make it have any value in my eyes... Ou lives and our world would be much better with just occaisonal mild disappointments rather than blinding hurts and tragedies....
I volunteer on a first aid squad,know alot of firefighters and volunteer ems guys,and i have alot of friends(volunteer or not).And still single.And I know alot of guys who "seem"nice,and when you get to know them...they are anything but!
I actually met a guy who did all these *great things*. He also was kind and compassionate to his friends, family & children. Unfortunately, he turned out to be a jerk too in a dating situation. Scratching head. Just didn't seem to add up. Oh well.
(sigh)
I have been looking for so many years I still haven't found a great guy. I think a great guy is just the guy who likes you. If he likes you, he will be a great guy, he respects you.
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