Saturday, April 7, 2007

Ten Characteristics of Great Men

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What is a great man?

I've observed and researched the lives of a number of men, those in our past and those currently alive, throughout the world and in my own life and, while there are many qualities of a great men, have identified ten characteristics common in great men.

Ten Characteristics of Great Men

1. Great men have their priorities in line. They know what is truly important in life, and live accordingly.

2. Great men are tender with those in need of tenderness. They are kind to the elderly, children, and those with disabilities.

3. Great men respect and honor women. They don't objectify, degrade, or demean them.

4. Great men participate in the community. They may spend time volunteering, working for a cause, or being involved with a charity.

5. Great men are honest, and have a sense of morality, integrity, and decency. They have an internal awareness of what is or is not appropriate, good, right, or decent.

6. Great men have a sense of purpose. They do not waste inordinate amounts of time in from of the TV or playing video games. They can balance fun and relaxation with work and productivity.

7. Great men are continually expanding their minds. They do not think they know it all and are open to new ideas and insights.

8. Great men have a healthy sense of self. They are confident and secure while maintaining a sense of humility.

9. Great men help and assist others. Whether in their place of employment, in their daily lives, or in the greater world at large, they have a sense of giving back.

10. Great men are in touch with their feelings, emotions, concerns, and even shortcomings. They don't feel a need for pretense or power. They can cry, have compassion, and acknowledge mistakes. They can love and be loved.

Note, a great man is not measured by the amount of money he has, the kind of car he drives, the size of his biceps, or outward appearance.

A great man reflects his greatness in his everyday life.

11 thoughts and insights:

ebizwhiz said...

Fantastic post. We know so much about dysfunctional men, but very little about what makes a man truly great. I've quoted your post on my blog at www.soulkadee.com

Louis Moore said...

This is great stuff! Thanks for sharing.

Louis

Jennifer said...

Hi Ebizwiz...

Thanks a bunch!

I'm really trying to have this site give warning signs for not-so-great men but also I want to celebrate the great men out there!

:-)

Thanks for being here!

Jen

Jennifer said...

Hi Louis...

Thank you so much for your kind support!

Warm wishes,

jen

AMPlifier said...

I am printing out this list and hanging it in a prominent place! Thank you for this blog!

Anonymous said...

You got 90% percent right, the 10% you got wrong is the power bit. A man doesn't focus on sex but power and money and a wife(family).All things will fall into place . As sense of self and power are important, but doesn't mean it has to be on display.

Jennifer said...

Hi Anonymous,

Thanks for your comments.

I guess 9 out of 10 isn't too bad. Still an A right? :-)

I think I understand what you are saying and yes men do need a sense of personal power... I was meaning more like power over other people, to control, command, boost their ego rather than those who have an internal sense of power and self-esteem!

Thanks for your insight on this!

Jennifer

Anonymous said...

I think the list can be equally applicable to us women. :)

ms. innocent said...

Thanks so much...your post really enlightened me. Really put things into perspective for me. Thanks :)

Anonymous said...

Wow! I have all those qualities, I guess I'm great after all.

vinod said...

thanks to present this. this awesome

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