Sex is Not Intimacy, Love, or Care

The human need for emotional connection, love, care, and intimacy is powerful, more powerful than we may acknowledge.

And, as humans, we seek out one who can provide these for us.

What happens for some women however is that they mistake sex for love.

Sex is NOT love. It is not intimacy. It is not care.

This is not to say sex is not fun and exciting and fabulous, but it should not be mistaken for love.

In an emotionally connected and loving relationship, sex is a way to express love and it certainly can unite a couple in powerful ways. Sex that reflects the passionate love and care shared by a couple is often an experience much more powerful and fulfilling than mere sex with a stranger.

But sex is not love.

Many women hold the mistaken idea that if a man wants to have sex with them, the guy must love them or at least like them. Not so.

While there certainly are those men who respect women enough to not use them for their sexual pleasure, it is also true that there are guys who do not have any form of emotional connection to a woman and still want to use their form to fulfill their sexual needs.

Ladies, do not get confused. If you are wanting intimacy and love, do not expect sex will bring it to you.

And, do not try to manipulate a guy into loving you by providing sex.

This only leads to resentment from the guy and disappointment for the woman.

Be clear what you need and remember: sex is not love.