Saturday, March 10, 2007

Keeping Women in Their Place.....

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In a society beginning to have equal rights under the law, in a society where women are finding a place in previously exclusively male fields... what could keep us down? What is holding us back? What could keep us from blossoming, using our strength, creativity, and unique gifts to change the world? What is it that is stopping us from embracing the equality that is now available to us for the first time in the history of humankind?

How to keep women in their place.

1. Inundate the culture with images of perfect, airbrushed female bodies so girls and women always feel unattractive, unappealing, and ugly, and so men will be unsatisfied with normal and average women.

2. Create a "need" for women to spend so much time and energy on their appearance, dress, and bodies, that they do not use their financial power, and true energy to impact the world in positive and healthy ways.

3. Regardless of how amazing a women politician or businesswoman is, focus on her dress and hairstyle. Always make her sex the issue. If she fails blame it on her womanness, if she succeeds blame it on her male associates.

4. No matter how incredible a female athlete, artist, or musician is, focus on her latest romance or shopping spree. Never appreciate her unique talent and gift.

5. Fill the media with sleazy, tawdry women who are known for nothing but their bodies and unhealthy lifestyles. Focus the news on these types of women rather than the many women who contribute to this world in powerful ways. Keep women thinking all woman are salacious, inappropriate, and out of control.

6. Give little girls dolls and toys that create an image of their worth being associated with their sexuality and how much boys like them. Give them role models who are focused on sex and how much men adore them.

7. Produce advertisements that show how appropriate it is to ogle a woman's body, how women find their only sense of self through a man staring at her breasts, and how worthless unattractive girls and women are in the eyes of males.

8. Create restaurants and other places of entertainment where women can earn more money if they show their bodies to men. In other words, create the image that power comes to women through their value to men.

9. Keep girls and women so unhappy with their bodies that they become sick and develop anorexia and bulimia. Keep them in a state of self loathing with a horrible body image.

10. At all costs do not show women as valuable contributors to the human race. Keep them focused on their bodies and always make sure they feel their only worth is in how sexually appealing they are to men.

3 thoughts and insights:

Comedy + said...

Hi Jen: You have these down to a tee. I remember being treated this way once. It took me years to climb out of that thought process but when I did...watch out. Started with my father and continued for a few years after leaving home.

I am not going to male bash either, but as some women have low self esteem there are their male counterparts. These are the guys that run this list by us on a daily basis. It only works if you buy-in! Can get violent when you decide you have had enough...but that is another story.

Keep up the good work. I'll be back. You are writing about my past, and it feels wonderful to say...past!

Jennifer said...

Hi Comedy...

I'm soooooooooooooo proud of you! :-) It takes a lot to get out of the mindset that we are valued only for our use to men. You did GREAT!

And... you are so right that it only works if WE as women buy into it. When we take back our strength, that mindset has no power over us!

Excellent point.. thank you for sharing it!

Blessings and love,

Jen

Tml said...

Umm.. Better looking is better.

We dont need magazines to tell us that..

Slimmer and in-shape is better.

Its not a matter of what you want, its a matter of what your man whats.

If your man wants a slim chick with big breasts, damnit be that. Or he will find someone who is (If he has options)

But there are plenty of guys out there that will accept you and cant get chicks, the question is are you attracted to those guys.

Or are you more attracted to the ones with bigger ambitions..

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