If you want to find a great man you need to identify what makes a man great!
There are tons of wonderful, fantastic, amazing men out there! You just need to know what makes them great!
Great men aren't always rich.
Great men aren't always famous.
Great men don't always look like the cover model of GQ.
Great men don't always drive a Lexus.
Great men aren't always the CEO of a company, or President of a country.
Ladies... stop thinking wealth, power, prestige, and privilege makes a man great. it doesn't!
What makes a man great is his character, his personality, his decency, his integrity, his concern, and the unique goodness he brings to the world!
Stop thinking a fancy car or title, make a man great! Start looking at a man for who he is!
The image of success isn't success.
The appearance of power doesn't equate to true greatness.
Notice the good men in this world... find a guy who is truly great!
8 thoughts and insights:
Ha ha this reminds me of all the people who saw me with an (much) older man thinking that only a man in a position of power and money would suit me - they were so wrong.
My sweet boyfriend is a great man. He is for real. My past relationships included men with money and big egos. I desire very little material things now. This relationship is built on mutual respect and honesty and we would rather have time together sharing our interests and encouraging each other than we would answering the phone to friends and outside interruptions. We aren't interested in what other people think of us; we are paying attention to us and nurturing our relationship. Works for us.
Hi Tisha... EXACTLY! Strong confident women are looking for real men... men who are confident, decent, and honorable! Appearances are so NOT where it is at!!! :-)
Hi Technobabe...
Wow... sounds like you know exactly what I am trying to say! Healthy relationships are not about superficiality but about a desire to have a healthy, loving relationship! You are so right on! Thanks for your GREAT example! Jennifer
I can't believe you did that Jennifer! Everything I said about you was well deserved. You're indredible, thank you for all your kinds words, I sincerely appreciate it!
So, if I understand this post well, I think I am a very great man (not wealthy, not powerful, not even a car, not famous, no covers on any magazines !!!! I like that :-) ok, ok, I carry on the reading with the other criteria, and so on. :-)
Hey Tanguy...YES!! Real men are great men regardless of what kind of car they drive, how much they can bench press, or how much money they make. It is about character, integrity, decency, and true greatness! YaY for you!
Jennifer
Is a divorced man not a great men?
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