Monday, January 8, 2007

How to tell if a guy is a Jerk: Tip 13 - Hugh Hefner is his Role Model

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Guys who think Hugh Hefner has is made are NOT FOR YOU!

Ladies... please take note. If a guy is wanting a harem, he is not going to be attentive to you. He is not going to be satisfied with you. He is not going to be faithful to you.

This is not rocket science.

I find myself amazed at the women who think that the Hugh Hefner wanna-be is all of a sudden going to change and become a great boyfriend, husband, and father. It will not happen.

Now, I know you are a great woman, devoted, fun, smart, and amazing. But this is not enough to change a jerk into a great guy.

There are reasons why some men don't want a life-time partner. It has to do with their ancient ancestor's sexual strategy. These male stone age ancestors preferred being a sperm donor rather than investing in offspring. These sorts of guys just haven't evolved to a place where they care and respect women, or desire the beauty that comes from a long term relationship.

So don't bother with these types of guys. Don't be a woman these guys use.

Notice the guys who enjoy the comfort, care, meaning, and peace that comes with a long term partnership. Notice the guys who enjoy the attachment, friendship, love, and unity that comes from being close to a woman. Notice the guys who will care for you, love you, want to be with you. They are out there!

2 thoughts and insights:

LiquidLifeHacker said...

Very true!
I can't help but look at Hugh and see a dirty old man, especially since that book came out that told all the orgy stuff he does with the playmates!

casey said...

yess the love of my life wants a harem and he dont see anything wrong with it. he dont have one but it seems like he is trying to get one. i really thought i was enough but i guess i was wrong. men and i mean all men are truly not worth a tear unless you like how they treat you.

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