If a guy is mean to his mom, you can be pretty sure he is going to be mean to his life partner.
If a man is rude to his mother, it is a clear indication that he does not respect her, nor does he honor her for the love and energy she extended for his care.
Now, of course there are those women who were horrible moms who do not deserve respect but still there is no need to be rude. If a man dislikes his mother (for whatever reason) he can still be a decent human being and take the high road in his behavior.
Most moms, though less than perfect, do their best to love and care for their children. A man who realizes the challenge of this job is a man who will realize the value of a great woman!
Notice how a man treats his mother and you will get a good indication of how he will treat you as a life partner. The more a man honors, respects, and cares for his mother the more you can be assured he will honor and respect you as well!
3 thoughts and insights:
Hi Jen, WOW! 5:53 AM! What devotion! Thank You for that!
The Mother-Son relationship is everything You say it is!
From the otherside: As one who was blessed with THE Mother, my unconscious search was for THE one who best personified what i thought exemplified the best-of-womanhood.
Lucky i was to find her. Even after 54 years of sharing life, i feel now as i did then. She is THE non-mistake in a life of adventurous learning.
To this old man it was my Mother's spontaneous smile that was so comforting and reassuring of my value as a child, that i found in my wife that so simply validated me as a young man.
And i dare say our five daughters have grown with that same assurance of their Mother's love so easily given in the beauty of a smile... On any face :-)
Hi Anon...
Thank you for your words of wisdom!
Honoring and loving your mother as you do, I'm quite certain you have a beautiful relationship with your wife. WOW... 54 years! You did something right!
In a world of precarious relationships, it is heartening to hear of the love two people can share for many many years!
You are certainly an example and inspiration!
:-)
Jennifer
i am VERY respecful to women but not to my mom because she abused me when i was young
so i dont think women should judge a guy by h he treats his mom
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