Exercising is a great activity! Caring for our body, staying in shape, working out... all great!
But when a guy is hanging out at the gym for four or five hours a day, something is up. We have a guy giving you a good clue that he is not the right one for you!
In a world filled with wonderful things to do, places to visit, ideas to create, working on one's body for hours on end can mean trouble.
What is going on with guys who feel compelled to look a certain (unnatural) way? Why the obsession? Maybe there is an unhealthy need to be stronger than other men. It could be a way to overcome some insecurity. Maybe it a guy feels like his body will attract women? Whatever the case, this obsession does not lend itself to a healthy relationship.
You want a man who has some balance in his life; a guy who cares about his mind, spirit, relationships, family, career, and the world, as much as his form.
If a guy cares more about his body than he does about you, time to let him go hang out at the gym!
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