I've had a few readers ask how they can tell if a guy is married.
If a woman is wondering, we can assume the man is presenting himself as a single man; no wedding ring, flirting, looking, giving women attention.
So, the question really is, if a man appears single, how can a woman tell if he is lying?
This is an easy one.
Listen to your gut. If your intuition tells you something is up, it is.
Your subconscious mind is picking up literally thousands of clues that are not in your conscious awareness. Your senses are aware of hundreds of little eye movements, slight pauses, non-verbal language that creates a picture and gives you this knowledge through your intuition. TRUST IT!
Most often women who get involved with a married guy who lies to them, upon learning the truth, state that they knew something wasn't quite right. Over and over again we hear stories of women knowing instinctively the guy was married but wanting to believe he was single.
Again, listen to your intuition. Trust yourself.
If a guys is pretending to be single, lying to you, cheating on his wife, he wants one thing and one thing only.
Do not get involved with such a man. You deserve a whole lot better!
4 thoughts and insights:
This is usually true - your intuition can help you most of the time. But don't feel bad if you are fooled by a guy who doesn't give off any red flags that he is lying. There is such a thing as a sociopath - a person who can lie and manipulate without seeming "sketchy" and without triggering your instinct that he is not being truthful. These people prey on your good qualities - generosity, trusting nature, etc. If you get involved with a sociopath, you won't be able to tell that he's lying, but it's not your fault. If you're lucky enough to find out the truth, get out and keep running!!
Would a guy joke about being married if he really was married? I had asked this guy that I'm "seeing" if he got lonely traveling all the time. He said why would I? I'm married. Well I asked what her name was and he said it doesn't matter. Then I stopped answering his messages. The next morning he sent me a message saying that he was joking and that he isn't married.
Its a long distance "relationship" and a few months ago I made a joke about not being able to see him because my husband was in town. I don't know if he possibly did that to show me that its not a good thing to joke about. I regret it but I don't know if he is joking for real or not.
Sometimes you cannot tell. My ex was a real piece of work. He lied to me straight to my face and at the same time sounded so sincere! I dropped him like the fly he is and never looked back. Let's all drop the jerks of the world together ladies!! We mean something.
ok I need help with this one... I'm dating a Baseball player. He plays minor leagues for the Yankees and I'm quickly falling for him, I've been reading "how to tell if he's married" articles ALL DAY, but those rules don't really apply... I mean for one he's ALWAYS traveling so the late night, short calls and whispering on the phone can't really apply because he's rarely home in NY... like now he's in the winter league in another country... and the tan lines on the ring finger, again most athletes take off their wedding band for games and such (I was an athlete myself so I know this for a fact). I know that these guys are dogs anyway, but I don't care as long as when he's physically in front of me i'm teh queen of his world... but if he's married I could never cause another woman and her family the pain I went through with my ex husband... he says he's divorced and he has a 2 yr old baby...
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